My bf and I are expecting our first baby this December.
I have caught him in many lies, found out he was still in love with his ex girlfriend for half of our relationship and was only pretending to love me (he admitted that part)
Went behind my back to see his ex girlfriend...used to take her out to lunch and went to her birthday party...and he used to text her constantly and lie about it.
I can't trust him and he ALWAYS breaks promises. About anythign and everything... and I catch him lying to other people as well. He says things will change but after a year, nothing has changed.
Is it worth it to stay with him...or should I leave???
Asked by Anonymous at 8:30 PM on Sep. 12, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by ggiovanni at 8:35 PM on Sep. 12, 2009
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Answer by WindyTheWidow at 8:39 PM on Sep. 12, 2009
If your bf is still behaving like this after knowing that he is about to be a father, I would definitely separate myself from him at this point. He obviously needs to grow up. Hopefully he will be a good father to your child but I wouldn't waste anymore time trying to change someone that obviously doesn't want to. If you do decide to stay, I think you will just be left with a broken heart in the end. Don't put yourself through so much pain. I would focus on building a better life for you & your child. I think if you give yourself some time to heal & away from him for a while, you may just decide that he wasn't worth your time as a companion. Whatever you decide to do with your life, I hope you think thoroughly with all your options. Good luck & best wishes!
Answer by onespecialmom at 8:44 PM on Sep. 12, 2009
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