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Several years ago my ex husband made untrue allegations about me to the police and child protective services. I was interviewed by the police and by child protective services, so was our daughter. CPS determined that the allegations were unfounded and I was never charged with anything.
I'm a little worried that the allegations might still show up on a background check my daughter's school is going to run so I can volunteer in the classroom. The whole experience was humiliating and I'd hate to have to explain it to anyone, let alone my daughter's kindergarten teacher.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:57 PM on Sep. 13, 2009 in School-Age Kids (5-8)
Answer by Nathskitten at 3:59 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
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Answer by Safirejewl at 4:27 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
You weren't charged, nothng should show up
Answer by ironkitten at 4:30 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
Answer by tyfry7496 at 4:34 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
The checks we run for parents who volunteer at the school where I work are only for arrest and convictions. Allegations would not show up.
Answer by MAUREEN55 at 7:13 PM on Sep. 13, 2009