Im so mad right now. My ex-husband is seperated from his bitch who likes to cuss and beat my kids. he drives a big rig and coming in this weekend and was gonna get the kids and spend his b.d. with them. Well I was having to wipe tears away once again because he called them and said hes spending friday night with her and will come and see them saturday. Once again they come last and all of a sudden after four months of actually being friends (me and him) hes treating me like the bad person just because hes talking to her. She has slandered them on myspace, cussed and beat them. And he doesnt care because hes just so desperate to get a piece of ass. I dont want them to see him saturday and they dont want to either. I think I will just be gone all day and not answer the phone. Im just sick to my stomach just thinking about her being in the picture again. This poor excuse of a woman is nothing but evil. cont....Answer Question
Answer by heavenlypeace at 8:49 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:50 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
Answer by heavenlypeace at 8:53 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
Answer by mommymeg03 at 8:53 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
Go back to court to modify parent time and tell the judge she beats them if it's true you will need proof like pictures and a police report and a doctors statement. If this really happened than as a mother it is your responsibility to protect them since dad is whipped ! and you should have some kind of documents stating this took place. You need to document everything, if you have been fighting them in court than you should know all this. I'm not trying to be rude just not sure why you would not make a big deal about her beating your kids, you could change the court order so that she is not allowed around your children or his visitation with the children is supervised.
Answer by Anonymous at 9:00 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
Answer by AmaliaD at 9:02 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
Answer by heavenlypeace at 9:11 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
So just a question here, if he was a piece of shit father and husband for 5 years, what exactly made you think he'd change? Move on, if he sees the kids he sees them, if not let it go. Children are better off fatherless than having a piece of shit they call "dad". Find someone else to be a good male role model and their lives and move the hell on.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 9:17 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
Answer by heavenlypeace at 9:41 PM on Sep. 13, 2009
So you are just choosing to let him hurt your children? It's a pattern that you should see by now. Woman comes around and he throws his kids to the side. You already know this. If he's not doing much with the kids then he's not their "daddy". Stop the visitation. If he wants to see them, he can go through court and when he does, he'll have to explain to the judge why he hasn't had anything to do with the kids while he's been with his gf. Don't blame the other woman, put the blame where it belongs, your ex hubby is a grown man who can make his own decisions. I stand by what I said, let it go.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 7:20 PM on Sep. 14, 2009