I had my tubes tied 4 years ago after my second child was born. I did this because I knew I was done. i could not mentally or monetarily support another child. I love the two kids I have and i wuold like to think I could love this one but I am so angry I am even Pregnant! I tried to give it time but i am now 7 months and still feel the smae way. DH says he will support my choice but he thinks we should try to keep her. I can't do it! I know I can't but I feel so guilty! and what if it turns out i'm right and i can't do it? Then what? You can't give them back...
Asked by Anonymous at 4:56 PM on Sep. 14, 2009 in Adoption
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Answer by scooterpooter at 5:01 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Wow, I cant believe you... There is a such thing called being a mother, and since you already have TWO, i would expect a more responsible decision. How are you going to teach your kids not to run away from responsibility when you are thinking about giving up a life that you help to create? I could understand if you needed financial help - but even then there are grants and organizations to go to. But you just don't want to be a parent. Maybe you should give the other ones away too, right? Because what is the use of family if you are not going to stick together?
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