I recently found out my husband had an emotional affair with a woman he worked with. He claims they just kissed and nothing else but I dont know. This happened while he was staying out of town for work. Then I had another girl come forward (she is an old friend of his and knows/respects me) and tell me that he was calling/txting her saying he hates me & loves her and so on and so forth. When I confronted him about it, he said she was a "crazy liar" and that she only said it to break our marriage up because she wants him. She has since stopped talking to him. I then found a txt in his phone under the drafts telling someone "happy birthday baby, i love you." Again... he says he has no idea where it came from. He says he loves me and only me but Im not stupid. I want to leave him. But Im terrified. I have 2 kids and have been a SAHM for 4 years. How am I going to make it... Im so upset... I never expected all of this...Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:11 PM on Sep. 14, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by sammybear71 at 5:19 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:22 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
""Emotional Affair" sorry but that is silly. If he is not physical with her, it's not an affair. It's friendship in which she probably wants more but not likely to get it."
Ok, I'm just going to come right out with it. You are stupid. Please read the book, "Why Men Cheat", and you'll see that men are more likely to have physical affairs after they've had emotional affairs and they are more likely to LEAVE their families after an emotional affair not just a physical one. Seriously, get real.
Op, start saving money, start selling things a little bit at a time. It's time for "plan b" if you want out of this marriage.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 5:41 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:01 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:03 PM on Sep. 14, 2009