Seriously? You will find many women both online and off that will support you 100% to get away from an abuser.
There are ways, if you don't leave it's because you are choosing not to. Don't get upset just because someone didn't give you a shoulder to cry on. You don't get that shoulder to cry on until you've left the abusive situation. Maybe getting angry is exactly what you need to motivate you to get out of an abusive situation.
How many of you would get on cafemom to "vent" just after your hubby beat you? How many of you would do the "smart" thing and call the police?
You are absolutely correct and I couldn't have said it better myself. WAY TO GO!!!
Answer by Anonymous at 10:11 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Answer by crazypink at 10:13 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Answer by coala at 10:13 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
"so u give the person that stayed for 10 years and finally left grief and call them a loser cause they stayed so long? or happy they left? or are they a loser for staying so long.. i bet your oh so perfect"
No, because I focus on the present and future. The positive is that the person left. Which is way more than Angry ANON has done.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 10:16 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Answer by legalmommy101 at 10:17 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
"legal.. i do want 2 leave.... i was scared to i am scared to.. been 5 years! and i feel like i lost me, im sorry im not as strong as you are christ i wanted supportive ways to do it to help me feel strong enough to do it!"
You own the house, right? Call the police and tell them he hit you. He will be removed from the house. Go to the commissioners office and get a temporary restraining order on him. When you go to court, file for emergency family maintenance. If he's been supporting you, he will have to continue to do so until you get on your feet. How's that for support?
Answer by legalmommy101 at 10:20 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Answer by KalebsMommee at 10:22 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Answer by Steff107 at 10:22 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
"if hes in jail.. please tell me how can he pay to help support? "
If there aren't any marks on you, he won't stay in jail. He'll go in, talk to the commissioner , get a court date and be released.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 10:22 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
Answer by KalebsMommee at 10:23 PM on Sep. 14, 2009
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