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im confused

alright ive been seeing this guy, and hes going through his mid life crisis...so now i don't know when hes just going through a mood swing or when he bein serious..hes jealous, possesive, and im begging to think he might be a wee bit crazy...well..more so than normal anyway. Have any of you been with a guy going through mid life crisis? What was he like? Did he just want to give up on everything?

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mamatobe1989

Asked by mamatobe1989 at 11:12 PM on Sep. 14, 2009 in Relationships

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  • are you sure its a mid-life crisis, and not some form of mental illness, like depression?
    bi-polarmommy

    Answer by bi-polarmommy at 11:18 PM on Sep. 14, 2009

  • well i know hes got some mental issues..hes got multiple personalitys and i think hes bipolar...hes an 70s baby....hes 45 now...and he thinks thats whats wrong with him...plus his ex that hes really good friends with just had a brain anorism...
    mamatobe1989

    Answer by mamatobe1989 at 11:21 PM on Sep. 14, 2009

  • HE WANTED TO KILL HIMSELF.. I HAD TO GO..
    Linsigirl26

    Answer by Linsigirl26 at 11:27 PM on Sep. 14, 2009

  • how many more red flags do you need to seek another healthy normal man. dump the guy. you can't fix him.
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 11:33 PM on Sep. 14, 2009

  • Crazy is crazy, inappropriate is inappropriate....midlife crisis is just an excuse for bad behavior. If he can't control himself then move on.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:45 PM on Sep. 14, 2009

  • He might just be a fruit loop. Sounds like you need to move on and find a guy who isn't having serious issues...
    Ali-Rippy

    Answer by Ali-Rippy at 12:31 AM on Sep. 15, 2009

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