I'm thinking of arguments when it comes to pregnancy, breastfeeding, etc. I understand it's your body, but shouldn't hubby get a say? I mean, it's his kid too. Shouldn't it be a joint decision based on a healthy discussion of what's best for baby and mommy and how daddy can fit into the picture if he's feeling left out? Not just I'm doing it my way and to hell with what daddy wants?
I guess it seems like some times people are willing to put their marriage at risk and be selfish for what they want, rathern than taking the healthy approach and talk to their partner about whats going on and make joint decision about the family as a whole.
For example, hubby requested I eat healthier when I got pregnant. I didn't decide that because I liked junk food hubby got no say. He offered to cook healthier meals and I offered to eat at least some of it even if I didn't like it.
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