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i feel lost...
I worked with this man for 3 years and last year I finally got up the courage to ask him out. So during our date I find out he had been dating this girl for over a year. He kept saying it was going to end, but now a year later it still has not. I left my job, but yet I still hear from him. Usually, I would say "enough" but it is hard because I fell in love with him the moment I saw him. I feel like a bad person for the way I feel, but when I hear from him I still get crazy weird butterflies in my stomach. I just feel that if I don't tell him how I feel I will always have that "what if" in the back of my head. Plus him sending me messages @ 7AM saying "good morning, I wish I could be waking up next to you" doesn't help. (Note: we've never slept together) There is this song by Jason Mraz "I'm Yours" and everytime I hear it I wish I could get strength enough just to tell him how I really feel... Lame? What would you do? Would you tell him or would you let it be?
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Sounds like hes a jerk who wants to have his cake and eat it too. Hes taking advantage of you. Hes got a girlfriend and you on the side to give him more attention. Do whats best for yourself and move on. If he really liked you hed be around you, hed be SINGLE!Found an answer to your question?
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If he does not leave his girlfriend, he is just not that into you. Find someone else who is into you. Believe me, you will feel this way again, butterflies and all, and be happy that you moved on!!!! You are probably just infatuated....Found an answer to your question?
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Also, if he leaves his girlfriend for you, he may leave you later for someone else. Something to think about...Is it not??? And who wants to be a "home-wrecker"?Found an answer to your question?
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I vote for telling him.Found an answer to your question?
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Tell him how you feel. He may be waiting for you to say it too. Don't let the question " what if" go on your mind one more day!! Good luck!Found an answer to your question?
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Here's the thing: What he is doing to his girlfriend....well, would you want him to do that to you someday? Seriously. How great of a catch he is can be determined by his behavior to her. You deserve better and you know what? His girlfriend deserves better as well!Found an answer to your question?
Answer by Anonymous at 8:52 AM on Aug. 30, 2008
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They say the grass isn't always greener on the other side. He's with her but then he see's you and he likes you for sure but he's not willing to make that jump to get to you. it sounds like he is comfortable with her and the relationship, but things with you are new and fresh to him and he's testing you it see if you'd be worth the risk of losing a steady girl friend. I would tell him how I felt and see how he reacts to that, if he gives you the run around than you know, if not good luck to ya'll.Found an answer to your question?
Answer by Anonymous at 9:38 AM on Aug. 30, 2008
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