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What is the biggest problem in your relationship with your SO, BF or DH?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:09 PM on Sep. 15, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (21)
  • his drinking
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:11 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

  • he can't quit doing other women
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:11 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

  • He snores really loud and I can't get a restful sleep.

    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 9:14 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

  • he thinks I should wait on him hand and foot while he plays computer games all day long. Seriously, I don't feel like making him and serving him breakfast while he sits ten feet from the kitchen on the computer doing absolutely nothing while i'm trying to clean house and do laundry.... then he complains he hasn't had a hot breakfast... well sorry buddy but i'm not a maid
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:14 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

  • hes always watching tv or playing on the computer he dont work he lost his job so im working full time and im starting school soon we have two boys all he pretty much does while im at work is feed them i come home to a messy ass house while he is on the comp playing games i have to tell him to clean the house i make a list i mean heck the only thing that i dont complain about is the sex......lol......oh and he does the food thing to....im hungry i wnat this i want that im like ur not a child and u know how to cook so do it
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:19 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

  • he smokes and he smokes way more then when we first started going together more then 9yrs ago....i hate cig smoke
    mama2my2boys

    Answer by mama2my2boys at 9:20 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

  • lmao legalmommy101! Ditto! We just had a baby and at night when I nurse the baby he keeps opening his eyes because my husband wakes him up with his loud snoring! I threw a pillow at my hubby last night just to stop the snoring for a sec!
    LuvmyFam6

    Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 9:21 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

  • My hubby used to snore really bad and kept me up. He stopped when we bought Pure Sleep.

    Now my biggest problem with hubby is he can't seem to tell people no whenever they have a problem. He is always helping.

    He once even went out on a service call for another company! Not paid. He felt bad for the guy who used the other company.
    07upsydaisy

    Answer by 07upsydaisy at 9:26 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

  • My husband has a tendency to ALWAYS make excuses for his families rude and inappropriate behavior. I hate it.

    sugahmamma

    Answer by sugahmamma at 9:28 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

  • He's unemployed right now. He had a position that didn't necessarily needed to be filled & he missed the training trip...got the date mixed up...and they fired him. It sucked. So money is definitely an issue. I work FT and I pretty much support us. We just moved & so money's tight right now. He's been searching lately, but the picking is slim. So me being the "bread winner" is taking a toll on his self-esteem right now.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:48 PM on Sep. 15, 2009

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