We've been together three years and have a 15 month old DD. I don't trust him any more, and I really just want him to leave. It is SO hard, but I am pretty much positive I have made my mind up. He works part time but only contributes $100 a month (if I am lucky). This is for living at my house (I pay for rent, utilities-including his cell phone) and for child support. He was going to get a new job (where he would me making more than me), but instead he went and smoked pot, so he didn't pass his UA. -He stopped smoking pot like 6 months ago, or at least I thought, and just did it once (supposidly). He has never told me that he loves me, but he talks about getting married and having another baby. He cheated on me a LONG time ago, and the way he acts now it makes me feel like he might do it again. I just need to be done, but it is so hard with a little one. But it isn't fair for me to have to deal with this. Please help.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:47 AM on Sep. 16, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by heather.darin at 11:55 AM on Sep. 16, 2009
sit him down and say "baby! I have had it with your selfish and inmature behavior, I pay the rent, I pay for YOUR child support for your other kids. I didn't sleep withtheir Mama, why am I paying for those kids?! You can't even hold a job! I deserve to be treated better than this! Our daughter deserves better than this, pack up your stuff and get out of my house! I am going to find a man who will treat me like a lady deserves to be treated!
Answer by Bjoycassell at 11:55 AM on Sep. 16, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:34 PM on Sep. 16, 2009
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