he used to tell me when he was talking to her. sometimes what they talked about. i dint care. now he doesnt. he told me she texted him the day to tell him she started using again. i was like, ok. we got into a fight and i read his texts. there were A LOT from her. i read them. the last one said, you cant have it both ways. i asked wat that mean. he said she still wants him. but she knows about me. he used to text me all the time while he was at work. now its always, "im busy". but then i find so many of her texts... i trust him. but idk... n hes so secretive with his phone. i always complain hes on it so much. so now when he hears me coming he hurrys to act like he wasnt on it. but hes always on the internet w/ it. wat do u think is up? wat should i do? please give me advise. am i wrong to feel jelous that he tells her our problems but not me? n y tell her we're having problems????
Answer by Ali-Rippy at 12:03 AM on Sep. 18, 2009
You need to stop feeling jealous and put YOUR FOOT DOWN..
I take it that you can not have it both ways...Differently than you...
I do not trust ANYTHING about this....
He has a life with you now, talking to her is completely disrespectful..
It will all continue and more ---if it not already...if you do not lay down the law..
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