I recently found out that my husband has been e-mailing and having an "emotional affair" with an ex-fling 5 states away. I found e-mails and pictures of privates between the two of them that dated back to March. I also found out that he has been looking at porn for the past 3 months EVERY DAY. What do I do? I confronted him and he shifts the blame to me...saying I always nag, am too busy..that type of thing. HELP!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:05 AM on Sep. 20, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by GotToHaveFaith at 12:16 AM on Sep. 20, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:24 AM on Sep. 20, 2009
Yikes Faith! Good answer, but a wee bit blunt :) Men are complex in a more simple way. BJ are the secret to a good marriage my husband says. Sex-doggy style in the closet while the kids are eating breakfast always helps too. My husband watches porn sometimes to get ideas, and to jack-off :) I personally know i would not be happy (pissed, throwing clothes out on the lawn) about an affair, because that is what it is, cut-and-dry. These are two huge road bumps on the road to having him beside you when you 6 feet under, and matching stones. I would sincerely suggest going to a counselor to work through this. The women on this site are awesome with good advice, but this is major stuff.
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