Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

What's a deal breaker for your relationship? If your so/dh did this you would kick him out no questions asked.

Answer Question
 
sweetpea532

Asked by sweetpea532 at 2:13 PM on Sep. 20, 2009 in Relationships

Level 1 (0 Credits)
Answers (7)
  • if he molested, or raped the children. ...he would be kicked to the curb and taken to court and anything else possible that i could do. Or if he murdered the children. of course i would leave then.
    outstandingLove

    Answer by outstandingLove at 2:15 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • Adultery
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:21 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • If he hurt my kids in any kind of way or hit me. That would be a deal breaker FOR SURE.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:21 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • Hurt the baby. also, if he tried to drug me for sex (rufies), that would be a deal breaker too.
    auroura

    Answer by auroura at 2:22 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • yea. i didn't think about that. drugging me for sex is worse then physical rape IMO. (and i've been raped).
    Luckily I have the most amazing husband and have never had any of these things cross my mind. :)
    outstandingLove

    Answer by outstandingLove at 2:26 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • Cheating/ fathered another child with someone else (obviously)
    Deidra08

    Answer by Deidra08 at 2:38 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • I have 3: hurting my children (hitting, beating, etc), hitting me, and cheating on me. There may be others, but those are the 3 that I know right now, without doubt, he'd be gone.
    tropicalmama

    Answer by tropicalmama at 4:42 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.