Everytime my boyfriend and I get into a fight, he says he's going to leave us. He KNOWS I have no way of supporting myself and our daughter and I have nowhere to go. Why does he do this?!?! Does he just do it to make me feel worse? Is it a control thing?? I'm sure if he really DID leave, I'd be able to find somewhere to go but I want to be here with him! I'm NOT OK with a man leaving his family. I understand sometimes things get tough and we fight but come on!! A fight about changing a diaper is NOT a reason to leave!
Asked by Anonymous at 4:23 PM on Sep. 20, 2009 in Relationships
Yes,it is a control issue,but,what are you going to do about it,don't wait for him to leave,honey you have to be prepare in case he leave, you are talking about,you want to be with him,please start saving any money you get your hands on,find a daycare for your child,get out and go to school or go find a job,so the next time,he say he is leaving,hand him his walking papers and his suitcase,and let him go,honey ,it's not worth it,letting a man abuse you mentally like this. Good luck to you.
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Answer by alilcoy at 4:32 PM on Sep. 20, 2009
He should be glad He is not with me. I would have packed his bags for him and put them out side. He is trying to either tell you that he is about to leave you. Or he is using it to control you. Sense you are not married. You can go get on PA. Or at least go there and see if they will help you with day care and you can get a job.
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