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Did you have kids before or after you were married?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:12 PM on Sep. 20, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • before. But now this wedding planning with a toddler pulling on my leg every 2 seconds is starting to make me realize why people are supposed to wait until afterwards. lol.

    Answer by jenellemarie at 7:18 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • After... hubs and I were married 5 years before our first was born.

    Answer by MizLee at 7:19 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • Nine months before. I just got married on the 16th =) I've wished maybe once or twice that we could've been married before we had her, just so we could've experienced the "newlywed" life. But then again, it's not that big of a deal. We've been together for 2.5 years anyway, and we've lived together since January 2008. We've felt married for a long time.

    Answer by caitxrawks at 7:26 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • hmmm. how about ...neither.

    DH had a son before he got married, but married her shortly after. Then got divorced because of various reasons. He has full custody but is deployed in the army i take care of my DSS full time. ...THEN my mom died in april and she still had my little brother DH and i are adopting him now too.

    ...but i dont have any kids of my own. ...just two amazing little miracles that grew in my heart.

    Answer by outstandingLove at 7:27 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • After... Exactly 7 months later. I wish we would of waited a few years so that we can enjoy wach other first, because NOW we have to be penciled into each others schedule.

    Answer by rwilliams117 at 7:30 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • after

    Answer by Pnukey at 7:31 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • son is 6 yrs,. never been married

    Answer by mommymeg03 at 7:32 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • After, very soon too

    Answer by MommaRox4683 at 7:33 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • after. DD was nearly 3 and i was 13 weeks prego with DS.

    Answer by jcsmummy at 7:38 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

  • My son was born 4 years after we were married. We had lived together for 9 years so it was a change having a little one in the house.


    Answer by momtolucas2002 at 7:40 PM on Sep. 20, 2009

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