My daughter is almost 4 months old. Her father has not seen her since she was about 2 weeks old and even then he still hasn't ever held her. He's only bought three things for her since she was born and has only sent three checks (none of them for the same amount). He is telling everyone that I won't let him see her and I keep him from seeing her. His ENTIRE family comes to my house at least once a week to spend time with her and his sister came and took 3-month pictures w/ her a couple weeks ago. He isn't on her birth certificate b/c he refused to sign anything until he got DNA results back.
The reason he hasn't seen or spent quality time with his daughter was b/c him and his new wife cannot stay away from each other for any length in time so he can spend time with his daughter. I understand they are married, but she isn't welcome in my house and if she's not welcome in my house he won't come spend time with his daughter.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:44 PM on Sep. 20, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 10:47 PM on Sep. 20, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:51 PM on Sep. 20, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:05 PM on Sep. 20, 2009
It sounds like you need a parenting/custody plan which will spell everything out. I hope you have a good lawyer. No judge will make you let the wife come into your home.
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Answer by luvmycutebaby at 11:12 PM on Sep. 20, 2009