He was my college sweetheart. We had a child together but our relationship did not work. Over the years he has done a decent job having a relationship with his daughter. I see him a few times a year when he wants to see our daughter. Since then I have been happily married. Tonight he called very upset and hurt to tell me his wife was having an affair. I felt so sorry for him. They have two beautiful boys together. It was just weird hearing him cry on my shoulder. I would not call him if I had a major life crisis. He was is tears and I hate to see others hurting. I am also afraid he might call again and really don't feel like he should. What should I say?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:59 PM on Sep. 20, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by outstandingLove at 12:01 AM on Sep. 21, 2009
Was he drinking? Could be he was. In any case, it's not appropriate for him to call you. If he calls again, tell him this is a matter for him and a buddy to discuss. If he doesn't get the message, have your hubby come on the line to talk to him. I'll bet that shuts down the commiseration.
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