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Just wondering how long you made your SO want until you have sex , and is your relationship good or bad now?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:29 PM on Sep. 21, 2009 in Relationships

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  • to be perfectly honest, we didn't wait very long~about a month. and are relationship is electric til this day. we've been together for 10 years, going strong. not all relationships end if u bring sex in too early and besides everyone has a diff definition of what is too early. ur's could be a week, a month, a's up to u to decide how and when u want to start.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:31 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

  • I was a virgin, so I made him wait 4.5 months. We have a great sex life, 14 years and still going strong!

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:32 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

  • Two weeks tops..I think....

    but we both knew...

    we have been together for over 2 years and we are engaged...

    Follow your heart!

    Answer by Dannee at 2:32 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

  • About 4 months - the sex AND our relationship is still amazing!

    Answer by missanc at 2:35 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

  • We actually hooked up 2 months before we even started dating! lol *blushes* We have now been together 6 years(married for 4) and our sex life is just as great as it ever was!

    Answer by Bmanda352 at 2:41 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

  • until we got married about 8 months later. didn't see the need to have sex with someone until i knew he would go all the way. of course we made the date up cause we couldn't keep waiting. the sex is ok but i have never really had great sex but the marriage is pretty great and so is the love. knowing he would wait for me spoke to me in volumes.

    Answer by melody77 at 2:48 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

  • We were both virgins. We waited about 3 years. The sex isn't great, never has been & we are both miserable & I'm thinking of leaving him. We've been together almost 15 years.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:21 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

  • I am the odd person here.. 2 days after we met. We have been married 20 years. Have a great marriage.

    Answer by louise2 at 3:31 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

  • we waited 6 months have been together for almost 6 yrs we are getting married oct 24 and on oct 25 marks our 6 yrs together we have 2 kids and a great relationship sex is awesome and im completely in love with him

    Answer by kelbel05 at 3:43 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

  • We were sleeping together on an almost weekly basis months before we started dating... And now, 6+ years later, we couldn't be happier together.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 3:46 PM on Sep. 21, 2009

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