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my friend stop talking to me...i think i did something wrong...

i dont get it...we used to talk several times a day until my husband and i started to fix our marriage...she had the same problems with her husband, i sent her an email on monday saying we are trying some new rules and so far seem to be working. the rules were no going to bed mad so if were mad at each other we "play" before going to sleep and when we feel the urge to yell at each other we give hugs and say i love you...and sent her another email asking how she was doing and all i got back was 'shitty, bye' and now she wont respond to anything i send her or answer calls or texts...i felt like i did something wrong but not sure what, maybe i shouldnt of told her what were doing different? i DIDN'T say here you should try this i said we started doing this and its working....did i overstep things?....we been close friends for about 5 years now and used to share everything i mean everything nothing was off limits.....


Asked by Anonymous at 6:03 PM on Sep. 24, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (3)
  • :[
    I'm sorry you're going through this.
    She just might be feeling a little bitter or sad or resentful, whatever because you two have lost that "common ground" and/or because you two are now willing/wanting to work on your relationship, while she can't seem to be able to do that with hers. Maybe she wants to, he doesn't. He does, but she doesn't. Either way, it just seems like she's feeling... betrayed or something of that nature.
    Probably not necessarily towards you, but just the situation overall.

    Just give her some space.

    Good luck, and I honestly hope everything works out between your friend and your marriage as well.

    Answer by K_Sawyer at 6:07 PM on Sep. 24, 2009

  • Maybe she was thinking that if both of your relationships tanked, that she'd have someone to pal around with and party? You fixing your marriage obviously doesn't fit into her plans OR maybe she doesn't want to know that your relationship is going well when her's isn't.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 6:05 PM on Sep. 24, 2009

  • Maybe she needs some space, although if she is a true friend and she is truly mad she would talk to you and tell you whats on her mind. Good Luck.

    Answer by dillonsma at 6:06 PM on Sep. 24, 2009