My DH is 2 years older than me but being the youngest of 8 and the only boy, he was so spoilt by his family...beyond belief. He is 30 and acts like a 16 year old boy. When we first got together, I didnt think too much about it, in fact, I naturally fell into the motherly, nurturing role and took great care of him. Now that we are married (only a year) and having problems in our marriage, I am having a difficult time submitting to him. I have had to assume the role of decision making, buying our home (he had bad credit) so the house and cars are in my name only. I make more than him (about 4 times what he brings home). I have a PhD plus years of experience but he never went to college and has only a few years experience and makes minimum wage.
How do we now change roles? How do I release the "power" to him now and assume the submissive role. How do I look up to him when he really is the one that looks up to me?
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