My dh and I just had a small disargeement and I hate the thought of my dh just walking away like.... Oh hear we go she is going to start crying again...give me a break or let me know when you are over whatever it is is bothering you :(
He makes me feel like shit and I try to talk to him but he is too stubborn to listen.
He is somewhat controlling but I don't let him push too far I will stand my ground if I feel he is over doing it atleast a good agruement.
I am tired of saying I am sorry when I know it is all me...I just wish he would be considerate to my feelings. I know men are made that way.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:29 PM on Sep. 25, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by monroemommyof2 at 3:33 PM on Sep. 25, 2009
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Answer by wildflowers25 at 4:28 PM on Sep. 25, 2009
Answer by Cavalrybaby02 at 4:53 PM on Sep. 25, 2009
"You take control by being the one that walks away. Do it and see what happens. You'll be surprised."
Did this one to my hubby a few times and it really does work!
"Maybe write him a letter and ask him to read it. "
I also did this to my hubby after he deployed (I knew he'd read it in Iraq) and I outlined specifically what I felt were problems in our marriage and if he didn't straighten up, then I was done. His attitude changed DRASTICALLY and it's been over 2 years since I wrote that letter and we are happier than ever!
Whatever you decide to do, good luck and I hope it works out for the best for you guys! :)
Answer by bethany_smith at 6:58 PM on Sep. 25, 2009
So all men are created equal!!! I thought that I was the only woman in the world who was putting up wilth crap from my DH who BTW is a BF. Only difference is as he is walking away says it's all my fault and if I'm such a bad BF why do you stay with me... well jack a$$ I wont always be here and it's a little tough to throw away 2 years and I love him. not sure how much I love me anymore :(
Answer by 2teenagers1516 at 7:05 PM on Sep. 25, 2009
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