my husband's best friend is a womanizer, he goes to the strip clubs nightly and picks up woman does his "thing" then sends them on their way. he came over last night trying to get my husband to go with him to the strip bars and i over heard them talking and the friend said my husband needed to get his balls out of my purse that he has no life and he should have a variety not the same woman every night...i was so pissed and cant figure out why he hangs out with this guy when he has other guy friends he known since grade school who are happily married he go could go play pool with ect...and no my husband says im being controlling, cause i hate this guy...and this guy does influence my husband alot so when the friend gives him too much shit he gives in so they ended up going out for two hours last night and my husband was rude to me b4 he left and after he got back cause of this friend
Asked by Anonymous at 1:31 PM on Sep. 26, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Iskkra at 12:07 AM on Sep. 27, 2009
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Answer by trevsrockinmom at 1:42 PM on Sep. 26, 2009
When a man gets married he has to choose between his friends or his family and decide which is more important to him. My husband recently had to make that decision and while he struggled with it quite a bit and hung out with his crazy friends a couple of times more than I would have liked, he eventually has realized he would rather have our daughter and I, and that his friends were not looking out for him. Until he realizes that this friend is not looking out for his best interests maybe you can come up with some type of agreement on what places are appropriate for a married man to go to, and what are not. Or even say something like he can hang out with that guy at your house or with other friends who you can trust. Good luck sweetie! I hope your hubby makes the decision that is best for all of you!
Answer by soccerchik8287 at 1:44 PM on Sep. 26, 2009
Answer by canadianmom1974 at 1:55 PM on Sep. 26, 2009
No I would not. I would have made it known I heard what he said. I would have confronted my DH, and ask him if he want to be single? That's what your trying to tell me, hanging out with your single friend.
Answer by louise2 at 1:55 PM on Sep. 26, 2009
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