My sister, who I haven't seen in a year, and my neice, who I met for the first time on Thus just came to visit for 3 weeks. We already discussed and agreed that my sister would spend weekends with me. I work full time during the week and would not be able to see her. She is spending the weeks visiting between my mom and my dad's house. I was invited to dine with them all last night, but declined the dinner and having my sister over, as I was feeling under the weather. I'm getting over a cold and was extremely exhausted last night. I called today to see if my sister was coming over, and my mom told me no. She said she had made plans with my sister for the whole weekend and that my sister was too busy.
Last time my sister came to visit my mom pressured my sister to spend the whole time with her, instead of dividing the family time. It left a lot of discord amongst us, hence the weekend arrangement.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:57 PM on Sep. 26, 2009 in Just for Fun
I don't think you are being selfish! You have the right to feel however you want to. Since your sister knows that is what your mom is doing, I think talking to her and telling her that your feelings are hurt and that you would like to spend some quality time with her is the way to go.
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