at my kids dance studio this morning we sat near this lady... a nasty mess. String greasy unwashed hair... which is somewhat understandable as she had a newborn with her. An itty bitty less than 3 week old. Mom was wearing SHORTS that kept riding up over her huge thighs... Mom was in the 220 pound range I'd guess (NOT fat bashing, I am enormous... but never wear shirts that short esp in public) anyways at 1 point she sat on the floor and shorts rode up SO FAR, her bloody pad was showing. And baby girl was in this very large and quite stained car seat very obviously 2nd hand or passed down from older siblings. It was quite grubby by any standards and then her little head was flopping all over. No head/neck insert or blankets rolled up. Diaper over sized/wrong size and hanging out the diaper, blanket had excess dog or maybe cat hair.... the both of them were a mess in general. My DH and I whispered to each other several CONT....
I don't think you should be so hard on yourself. I think when you see someone like that it's just human nature to react that way. Plus I would bet money that most of the other moms were thinking the same thing. Don't you just love that the people calling you judgmental and making rude comments all answered anonymously.
Answer by Julia0331 at 10:21 PM on Sep. 26, 2009
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I saw a really large guy jogging outsite my house one day. I was so grossed out watching him run, and then I realised what a bitch I was being. I corrected myself instantly, and silently applauded him for at least trying to get in shape.
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