We have an arrangement with my husband's ex where she gets my stepson two nights a week. Well, he really likes having the other parent call to say goodnight, just as a reminder that he is still thought of. My husband and I always call, but Mom usually only calls once or twice out of the 5 nights he is at home. Sunday night, we called her right before bed. Monday, he decided he didn't want to call. Tuesday, she called but he was in the shower and when he called back, she didn't answer. Thursday and Friday, we called and got answering machine and left messages. Neither call was returned. When we dropped SS off today, my husband told her that if she said she was going to call, she needed to, or she needed to call as soon as she could because it is really upsetting him. She said that since she moved last week, she has been too busy to call. She said this in front of him and he just started crying. Have you ever been too busy call?Answer Question
I am NEVER to BUSY for my child EVER. I see why you and your hubby have him most of the time. I would have to slap the bio mom right across the face if I heard her say that. My step-child's mother always calls sometimes twice a day to talk with the kids. They will call there mom anytime they want to talk to her. We call them just about everyday. We all have a good relationship I will spend an hour chatting on the phone with there mother and the kids will talk to me when ever they know there mom is on the phone with me. My hubby and her will talk about other thing then the kids. Shit they were together for just about 10 yrs and I have known her longer then I have known him. It's nice when we can all just have a good relationship and we are all adults about things. But for your situation I have never heard of a mother saying that they have been to busy for there child especially in front of the child. I would have cried to.
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