I need some of y'all to tell me if I'm over-reacting. My DH just got off the phone with his mom & she said they are coming up my birthday weekend. She did ask if we had any plans (which we did but they weren't set in stone) & since they live far away we told them no. But then she told my DH the reason she wants to come up: his dog has really bad arthritis & she wants to put him to sleep. But since he was originally my DH's dog (since he was 12), she wants DH to be there. And since we can't afford to travel to them, they are going to travel to us.
Now, is it wrong for me to be mad that for my 25th birthday my DH is going to be mourning for his dog? I mean...couldn't they have planned to come up at a different time? The dog is healthy, just in pain, so they could come earlier or later. I haven't said anything to DH because he's upset enough as it is & I know it's not his fault...but why that weekend? Am I being a b!tch?
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