Me and my husband got in a huge argument. He came to me and ask, is there someway we could work out something, so dad can stay here part of the time.
I said Whats wrong with your dad is he drinks(alcohol) and doesnt eat. I told him that wasnt fair to me. I work at home, I have a computer job. I clean the house, wash cloths, cook, and take care of the kids, they are in school, but they are very active and I do alot of running. His dad is only 55, he is an alcoholic. I told him, that I would go to his house and help him clean and cook and take him places and to the doctor. But, I just didnt wont him staying here, because he would eventually just move in. I dont wont that around my kids. Am I wrong? Why do i feel terrible?
Please any advice is helpful.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:11 AM on Sep. 29, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Cheapsk8mom at 9:17 AM on Sep. 29, 2009
No you are not wrong for how you feel. If you let him come to stay. You are just excepting and helping his addiction. It is not your fault your FIL is an alcoholic.
Answer by louise2 at 9:32 AM on Sep. 29, 2009
Answer by Queentdi at 6:57 PM on Sep. 29, 2009