I have a friend who is a 'user'. She uses everyone for something. She borrows or gets help to purchase things or have you drive her kids somewhere. I see it clearly. I like her and have over looked it in the past. Recently she pissed me off. Asking me to go to an appointment for dr. together (mammo). So I put mine off. Then when it was time to go she said can we put it off again. I was like ok. Then I said I am gong out of town can we do it when I get back. (I was also doing at the time of day to meet her needs) Okay ... then when I got back I called her she had done it while I was gone.
I am so annoyed. But I held my tongue then a few days later she said 'don't be mad at me.".. I said you just use people. (actually this was a text) then she said oh... Continued to defend her self.
Should I say anything more. The real point is she hurt my feelings. Is there any reason to tell her? Can she change?
Answer by danielp at 2:19 PM on Sep. 29, 2009
Answer by chocolatluver at 2:15 PM on Sep. 29, 2009
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