My husband and I have been married 4 years. Today I happen to pick up his phone (being nosy) and I saw that he had been calling his ex girlfriend (no they don't have any children together). Should I say anything? What should I say/do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:52 PM on Sep. 29, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:53 PM on Sep. 29, 2009
Hell yes I would!!!! When I first read your post I was like ok...if they have children together...sure but now that I am finished reading hell no I would ask him straight up what the hell??? He has NO business trying to get in touch with her....NO mamn raise some hell girl.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:51 PM on Sep. 29, 2009
Answer by lady-t3984 at 11:25 PM on Sep. 29, 2009
You don't need to do anything. He called an ex big deal. Could have called to see if he left something at her house years ago. My husband contacted an ex from 17 years ago to see if she still had his yearbook. She did and shipped it to us. She did not have a clue where we lived or would have sent it sooner. Thankfully for my husband he didn't have an insecure shrew of a wife that didn't trust him and snooped through his phone and then jumped to conclusions. I would leave this alone unless he is acting differently.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:55 PM on Sep. 29, 2009
Well I may be nosy but this is not the first time he has contacted her. The last time it happened he made up some BS excuse that made absolutely no sense. He and I talked about things of this nature prior to getting married and we both agreed that there was no reason for neither of us to be talking to our ex's. I've caught him talking to her on a few different occasions. The most recent incident (today) there were multiple calls throughout the day. In the past I've confronted him about it and it always got ugly. I just don't even know if I should continue to say anything about it. I asked this question because I wanted to know the best way to handle this situation at this point.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:07 AM on Sep. 30, 2009
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 12:35 AM on Sep. 30, 2009
Answer by Iskkra at 1:15 AM on Sep. 30, 2009