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cuddling, but just friends?

Do you think two people can ( guy & girl) xan be just friends? Say a few kisses here and there, cuddling, sleeping in the same bed, but no sex, watches movies together,silly conversations, sex jokes, but nothing sexual at ALL,.. do you think itd be possible to just stay friends or do you think there has to be something more there?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:59 AM on Oct. 1, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • If you're kissing, you can't say that there's nothing sexual AT ALL. Sorry.

    Answer by amy5272 at 2:59 AM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • I had a friend like this. We seemed to have this mutual love/respect for each other but we had less in common then we did in common. Hard to explain , but yes we slept in the same bed and occasionally kissed. We laughed, danced, cooked and even did projects on my house together. I won't lie though, on a few occasions we did have sex. We never proceeded with a relationship for some odd reason. I still see him at my friends house and here at my gatherings and I know I can always count on him if I really need him. lol, when we greet each other we still peck on the lips. I'm so glad we never went throught the drama of a "real" relationship.

    Answer by ItsMeGigi69 at 3:10 AM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • really? i dont see kissing as just a "sexual" act

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:20 AM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • Oh holy heck,if you guys only knew my ex-boyfriends & my history!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!We have a kid toghter,but wev'e always been able to just "hang out"as friends.Please don't ask,this has been going on for about ,I have noi clue how may years,our DD came abvout,cuz of one drunken night.LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG story in how that happened.But to answer the OP'S ?,Yes I believe it is tottally possible.

    Answer by cutebaby06 at 3:49 AM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • Me again,we dated for about 9 years or so,b roke up,then hung out as tatally friends,NO SEX what so eve,until 05,then here'ssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss come's Marissa,now mind you,we used no procection what so ever.,now figure that one out.

    Answer by cutebaby06 at 3:52 AM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • If the people are NORMAL it WILL go further.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:09 AM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • cuddling and kissing is sexual.

    Answer by summerm at 4:10 AM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • Answered at 1:09 AM on Oct. 1, 2009 by: Anonymous If the people are NORMAL it WILL go further.

    Not necessarily, like I said in my answer, we did let ig go toof ar a few times but there was in fact something missing in order to make it work. It had nothing to do with either one of us being "normal".  :)


    Answer by ItsMeGigi69 at 4:18 AM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • I had several friendships like this. We had intimate moments but nothing sexual. You can intimate with someone with out having sex. I also had relations like this with another girl, although I am not a lesbian. I believe you can have friendships like this with nothing having to lead on to it. Just sharing each other's company and that closeness you may be needing.

    In my opinion, kissing and cuddling isn't sexual. I kiss my cat, my husband, my son, my mother, my step father and I only have sex with one of them.. and that being my husband. I only find him sexually attractive. All the others are just healthy displays of affection. Except perhaps my cat if she has been rolling around in poo or something. Eww...

    Answer by bluelady27 at 4:39 AM on Oct. 1, 2009

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