What do you think about this? I think it's absolutely insane to adopt a child and after 18months realize that you aren't "bonding" with the child and give that child up for adoption.
Talk about failed adoption.....This is exactly why some people shouldn't adopt. I hope that people that do this are never allowed to adopt again.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 9:54 AM on Oct. 1, 2009
Answer by 4artistsmom at 10:29 AM on Oct. 1, 2009
Answer by Jademom07 at 10:36 AM on Oct. 1, 2009
Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 10:46 AM on Oct. 1, 2009
Answer by Mei-Ling at 10:49 AM on Oct. 1, 2009
So just because you don't "bond" with your child, it's ok to give them up for adoption? Isn't that message she's sending? Poor child has been abandoned twice now. I really don't think 18 months is hardly enough time to "bond" with an adopted child that was no adopted at "birth". Once you adopt a child and then you decide you don't want them and give them up for adoption, NO you should never be allowed to adopt again end of story. I feel sorry for her own children if she decides that she hasn't quite "bonded" with them like she thinks she should and throws them away too. This woman is selfish plain and simple.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 11:06 AM on Oct. 1, 2009
This is a heartbreaking disorder.We have neighbors/friends that adopted their nephew when he was three yrs old 16 years ago from profoundly neglectful parents.The dad is a doc so they have tried everything that has had merit.Sometimes their bio-kids have suffered when so much attention has gone to him. He still has major major problems.I can't judge her ,she did what she felt was best for him.A live in professional can only be better for him.
Answer by drfink at 11:08 AM on Oct. 1, 2009
Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 11:18 AM on Oct. 1, 2009
I'm not one that feels that all "birth" mother are selfless. I use the term "selfless" loosely when it comes to describing birth mothers. It's this pick and choose mentality that is really disturbing. We don't get to pick our parents just like we don't get to pick our children. Let's just call it as it is. She was selfish in the first place for ever adopting this child when she already had a large family. She then decides that she can't handle his "issues" and wants to get rid of him. I absolutely believe that if you give your child up for adoption because you can't handle their "disabilities" that you shouldn't have anymore children. The birth mother of this child shouldn't be allowed to have anymore children either. Any mother that leaves her child on the side of the damn road should have her uterus ripped out.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 11:30 AM on Oct. 1, 2009
Answer by wildboyz1994 at 11:54 AM on Oct. 1, 2009