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Hello Cafemoms, just wanted to make a comment. I really enjoy this website, the connection, and all of you fun loving moms out there. I just don't understand those of you who feel the need to be "anonymously" rude. I have seen some of the nastiest responses over the stupidest things and don't get it. Don't think you would do it if you had to post your identity. I DECLARE; ONLY NICE, RESPECTFUL, TRUTHFUL RESPONSES, OR DON'T RESPOND AT ALL. Really sisters, we each have an opportunity to help one another, cheer each other on, and support.
When you read a question, you have no idea the reality of a situation, and no right to judge. Peoples lives are more complicated than a simple sentence, it doesn't sum it up.
So I encourage you all to think about how your responses could affect someones life. What if your rude response is the straw that broke the camels back? OR, the one that lifted up a soul?

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Asked by JackieGirl007 at 3:27 PM on Oct. 1, 2009 in General Parenting

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  • Nice message, and I completely agree with you.

    Answer by MommyLee08 at 3:30 PM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • So true!

    Answer by MommaRox4683 at 3:32 PM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • Way to go Jackiegirl. I'm with you! I've often thoght the anon button should be removed for answering questions.

    Answer by momrocks1000 at 3:33 PM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • I agree.. but I use the anon button. I dont say mean things.. i just prefer to use it. I hate when the ladies on here get rude. I have asked questions and got bashed... and the questions were just for fun... helping me pick a name out. It was weird and a turn off to me. I agree with you!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:37 PM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • people that don't have any pics up of themselve or of their kids...ARE STILL ANON.. y do people not see that.. MommaRox is anon and momrocks is anon lol i have no idea of who they are and what they are about. Any time anyone says anything about "anon" posting rude. what about the people that dont go "anon" that are also mean. The world will never be rid of mean people. ON the Internet off the internet doesnt matter they will be here. Plus a lot of things i say may sound mean but they are my opinion and some people cant stand other peoples opinion or its just not what they wanted to hear.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:41 PM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • I find it annoying when someone attacks you for having a different opinion. I think it probably hit a nerve and has made that person reflect on their own life and it upset them....

    Thats just the way some people have learnt to hurting others and being mean. I just remind myself that they were once a newborn baby...innocent and sweet...and how they are now is a reflection of how they have learn to deal with the world around them.

    Answer by keyaziz at 3:55 PM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • Anon 41 - Think what you like about those who don't post pictures of themselves or information about their children. Your post is one of the reasons I don't have any of that stuff on here anymore. It's none of your business or anyone else's business what me or my children look like.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:01 PM on Oct. 1, 2009

  • EXACTLY!!! Bring goodness to the table. If you are incapable...leave. Go ruin the rest of your day w/ peeps that um... say they like you. :)

    Answer by giannasbabyboo at 10:01 PM on Oct. 1, 2009

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