i have a step daughter that i dont get along with very much. most of any issuse that we have i just tell her to take it up with her dad. Well she is ordering her class ring and put her boyfriend name on it after her dad told her that she could not do it. then when i asked her for the reciet so i could file it with our bills she said that she didn't have a recite. well i email the company and they sent me the recite that she "did" get and she went against her dads wishes and put his name on it. I am the one that pays our bills and i dont want to pay for this ring. but when i told her dad he said just pay for it and let it be a lesson learned when they break up and she is stuck with this ring. i dont fell the same way. what would you ladys do.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:20 AM on Oct. 2, 2009 in Teens (13-17)
Answer by Anonymous at 12:26 PM on Oct. 2, 2009
Answer by Princessofscots at 1:45 PM on Oct. 2, 2009
Also bottom line if her dad says to let her have it, that is what you need to do.One day it will be important enough for him to put his foot down and when he does it will between the two of them .Not you made out to be a rabble raiser.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:12 PM on Oct. 2, 2009
Answer by LadyJayne27 at 2:34 PM on Oct. 2, 2009
Answer by PaceMyself at 3:27 PM on Oct. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:28 PM on Oct. 2, 2009
I'm not too concern with her wanting her boyfriend name on her ring,her boyfriend in her senior year is a very big thing to her,and who are we to say,they won't get married and be together for 50 years,You hear about high school sweethearts all the time. Now,what upsets me is the fact she felted her parents didn't understand her, and she went behind her Dads back and got the ring done. In Ephesians 6,it speaks of children obeying their parents,but, it also states,Parents do not cause your children to wrath,meaning,we as parents are suppose to listen,and respect our kids too,so they won't feel like they have to be sneaky,or tell lies.In this case, although she was wrong, I think she thought she was right,all she saw was the love of her life,and graduation approaching,they may go to different schools,and she wanted something with his name for remembrance of their love. Oh, how sweet young love is.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:11 PM on Oct. 2, 2009
Answer by Shelii at 10:11 PM on Oct. 2, 2009
Shelii then the smom is behaving the same as the sdaughter and going against the girls.dads wishes.This will only cause trouble between o.p. and her husband.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:54 PM on Oct. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:03 AM on Oct. 3, 2009