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serious question....How do to "big" people have........

have sex? I am not bashing, I am curious! I mean, if they both have big belly's.........I dont get how it works.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:44 AM on Oct. 3, 2009 in About CafeMom

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  • Just like any other couple for the most part. Different positions etc. My husband and I have sex A LOT and we do it just fine!
    Bamzakarat

    Answer by Bamzakarat at 1:47 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

  • maybe they do different positions if their bellies get in the way....Im preg and I know my belly gets in the way and my hubby has an 8-pack so I dont know how 2 ppl with big bellies do it

    sorry i dont have an answer but my only guess would be different positions other than missionary
    DomoniqueWS

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 1:48 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

  • It just more cushion for the pushing!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:49 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

  • OP.........I am talking about a couple who are 300lbs or so a peice. What kind of position? I try to imagine it, but I cant. LOL I am really being serious, this has botherd me for years.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:49 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

  • Well dam in that case they probably have one or two positions that they can do, thats really big.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:49 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

  • Wow. Um, we just do. Same way those of you with no cushioning have sex.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:54 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

  • OP I have cushion. I am 145lbs. dh is 180,
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:57 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

  • Ok, I have been 300 pounds before and so has my s/o but we lost alot of weight, total of 120 pounds and the sex is A LOT different. When we let ourselves go to get that big we only had about literally 2 or 3 COMFORTABLE positions. NOW, we have too many to count! And we both still have cushion for the pushing.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:57 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

  • I am a big girl, almost 300lbs, and DH is about 150lbs. The only position I cannot do well is me on top, mostly because it hurts my legs, not him. We can do all other typical positions and some that might not be so typical. As for 2 people my size, I assume doggy style would work well.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:23 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

  • LOL I know what you mean! My hubby and I know this couple that are both very obese and they keep poppin out the kids! We just ponder, how do they do it????!!!! (shudder) lol
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:12 AM on Oct. 3, 2009

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