Mine is self absorbed. We have been together for 6 years and no family memories for the kids to fall back on. I have 3 teens from my first marriage and a 5 yr old with my current husband. On weekends he leaves for 2 days go to the "shack" and does as he pleases. He gets mad when he comes back and all I have to say about my weekend is it was the same as any other day of the week. Kids, cleaning and laundry. No breaks! No weekends away! He blames me because we live in "town" (pop.622) He says there's too many people around and likes the country. A town of 622!!! too many people?
I'm just fed up. He won't spend time with any of us and wonders why my kids give him a cold shoulder. Like having a job should make it worthy enough to have his ass kissed!
I talk to him about my feelings, but it's just one excuse after another.
I'm so shut down on the inside. My feelings turned off. I have too if I'm going to stay married.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:56 AM on Oct. 3, 2009 in Relationships
I have an amazing husband. He has been my support system through so much. I think the thing that I love the most is that he loves me as I am. I have very high goals for myself and am very ambitious. Most men would run from that. I travel for work about 4 times a year and he thinks nothing of taking time off of his job and staying at home with the kids. My husband has supported me and kicked my butt through college. When I met him I only had 2 years of college. I am now a Ph.D student because he does whatever it takes for me to make the time for my education. He is very nurturing with me and our kids. We have the same goals in life and are truly each others best friend. I think the only fault he has is that he loves toys. Big and expensive ones.
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