so we had a talk about marriage and i was under the impression that it was going to be a good talk but it turned into he thinks i hate his son which i dont i jsut dont love him like i love my own kids and never will. i didnt give birth to him or raise him he will never be my son and i dont intend to treat him like i treat my son and he dosent treat my son like he treats his son. we have a daughter together and i love him dearly and he treats my son good and i treat his son good so idk if he is just trying to avoid marriage or if he really thinks i am going to feel the same way about his kid as i do mine.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:17 AM on Oct. 4, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by JLynn0871 at 12:45 PM on Oct. 4, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 2:22 AM on Oct. 4, 2009
Sounds like you're spiteful, and he is too, and your problems are only bouncing off of each other's because you feel the if he doesn't treat your child like he does his, then you're not going to treat his child like you do yours. Which means nothing is going to be resolved, and it will only escalate in to bigger issues. Yes, you can love a child that is not yours. There's not reason for either of you to treat either child better than the other. It's pitiful. You two need to really work this out, and both work on treating the children equally.
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