me and my daughters father are divorced and he has not seen baby since last november. his parents have never seen her and recently they wrote me a message on myspace and asked if i could get the time off from work and they bought my plane ticket if me and baby would stay at their house for the weekend.( they live in north carolina and i live in washington, so its really far) i dont really have a problem with them seeing her but i dont want to be at their house with my ex and my baby by myself because i dont trust my ex. one of the last things he said to me was he wishes he would have taken the baby just to piss me off. thats why i dont trust him. i do have some family a couple hours away from exs parents house so i could stay there. does anyone have any advise?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:01 PM on Oct. 4, 2009 in General Parenting
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Answer by angelairelan at 1:06 PM on Oct. 4, 2009
Since this is something you are concerned with I would suggest that you not let your child out of your sight for even one second. You see nothing wrong with letting the grandparents see the baby, which I agree with you on, but take precautions just to be on the safe side! If this were happening to me, I wouldn't stay at THEIR house because I don't think that I would be able to sleep one bit with what your ex has said. But I like your idea about staying with your own family and then letting them see the baby that way. I would talk with them about it and make sure that they understand what your rules are, etc. Good luck sweets!
Answer by Katrina3016 at 1:19 PM on Oct. 4, 2009
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Answer by MizLee at 5:23 PM on Oct. 4, 2009