My husband and I got into a heated argument and words were said and I got so fustrated with him and told him to shut his F'n face and he said F U , U Fat B***(mind u I just gave birth one month ago by c-section). He said it 3 times. Later I addressed him and told him I have never been called such a name in my life. He said he was so sorry he has never called anyone that in his life. We have made up and come to an agreement on things but I keep thinking about it. I asked him why did he say it ? he said he was just was mad. I told him he must really think it because he said it , he said no he did'nt.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:26 PM on Oct. 5, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by admckenzie at 8:33 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
Answer by beckcorc at 8:35 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 9:22 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
I know it hurts when someone you love says something like that. The only thing that will make you feel better is time. As long as he doesn't go on the verbal assault again, you will be able to get over this through time. More than likely he was caught off guard when you said what he did and just like any human being he had to say something more mean than you did. He was probably hurt at what you said and wanted to hurt you back. I am sorry that it got that far and hopefully you both will think before you say something to the other. Good luck, and cherish each other. He is the best you have right now.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 10:19 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
Answer by Queentdi at 10:26 PM on Oct. 5, 2009