You all should be used to me by now. Ok, so my son's dad does not come around, but since he is on the birth certificate and pays child support, then I have a feeling that he is going to come around one day and say that he wants his son for what ever reason. My question is, would you make him "visit" while he's at your house or would you say no, or would you let him take your child?
He pays child support and that's it. So I want him to be gone and not show up any more since he's good at that. Question number 2 is, are my feelings wrong? Am I making this about me?
Answer by auroura at 9:40 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
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Answer by Queentdi at 9:45 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
If this were to happen and your mommy instincts were on fire, then I'd go with that. Personally, if this were to happen to me, the answer would be hell no you aren't taking my child anywhere. He could, of course, visit in OUR home as long as he wanted but to just take my child and leave, um, no. And no I don't think your wrong or making it "all about you". You have to protect yourself as well as your child and however you feel like you need to do that, thats what you should do.
Answer by Katrina3016 at 9:46 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
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Answer by Queentdi at 9:51 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
Answer by Queentdi at 9:52 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
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