Okay, he gets home at 6:30pm after having left to work at 4:30 am. He does have to drive one hour each way to get to work. The problem I am having is why he won't even call me once at least to tell me how he's doing or at least to tell me at what time I can expect him home. I don't call him at work because I don't want to interrupt his work or slow him down and he knows that. So he gets home and I admit I was a little pissed by then and start asking him why he is now getting home and why can't he even call once. And he starts getting defensive and the only thing he tells me is that he was at work and he just got off and it took longer because of traffic. Then proceeds to walk away like always and tells me that he has to go back to work tonight at 10pm. I have always told him that I will never try to trap him down so if he ever thought about cheating on me or doing something to just tell me and I will leave him ...con'tAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:28 PM on Oct. 5, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 10:30 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
do you actually think your man would cheat on you? if you say.."i dont know" then thats bad in itself. sometimes my mind wanders into that but as soon as it does i tel myself how silly that is because I KNOW he'd never cheat on me. i don't think your husband is cheating.based on what you described. trust is key in a marriage. i think its just you. your issue. i think you are self conscious. and thats why you're blaming him for this. look into yourself and find confidence. this isnt any of your mans fault.
Answer by naturepeace at 10:35 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:37 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
Answer by naturepeace at 10:40 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
You are trapping him by always asking questions. My DH works at 9 am and gets home around 10 pm. He calls sometimes and other times he doesn't. I have never once been concerned about his faithfulness because I know that he loves me and our family. Have you been cheated on before? If so, that is why you have problems trusting him. And as far as him working again at 10, why would he want to be around someone who is always accusing him of things. He probably wants to come home and relax. If you give him this, he might be more open with you about his day.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 10:42 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:02 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:38 PM on Oct. 5, 2009
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