They live next street over, she phys. lives with him because of her cats but stays with me 3 - 4 nights a week. Im moving at the end of this month out of state and told her she has no choice but to go with me. I am the only one who has custody over her. She said she would run away if I make her move. My stepfather (my mom has passed away) said he would call the cops and DCF and tell them lies if I try to take her. My friend we are moving with can not risk being harassed by law or DCF (not because he is in trouble but because he is in custody battle w/t crappy ex wife). We will be taking her dog, but not her cats or rabbit, which I found homes for. I know there will be so much drama when it comes time to move and my step dad will start so much. So do I just take her when hes not home or do I let them say bye and deal with his threats etc. continue in first answer below, please read it too.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:52 AM on Oct. 6, 2009 in Teens (13-17)
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Answer by JustPlainOlMOM at 11:49 AM on Oct. 6, 2009
I know you don't want to hear this,but, I am putting myself in her place,first hand ,she is 13,that's a enough right there,next thing,you are asking this child to give up an awful lot to make your life complete,everything you mentioned,revolves around you,move with your friend,got a job for you, need more friends for you.Now,on the other hand,your DD is being told to give up everything she love,a grandfather, her friends, her pets, her school,and on top of all that,she just loss her grandma. Sometimes, it get hard, but,before you think about calling the police on the person ,who tried to help you when,you needed it ,I would about it,you seem like you are more concern about what your friend is going through with his wife,now that's really not your business,since he is still married. Focus on your DD,let her stay with her Grandpa,so she can finish school,and it won't interfere with your boyfriend.
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Answer by JustPlainOlMOM at 10:23 AM on Oct. 7, 2009
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