Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Why are there so many obscene siggies on Cafe Mom?

Honestly, there are so many obscene siggies I wish there was a way to complain about them. The latest one I saw was a naked lady on her stomach wearing only high heel shoes. Maybe the siggie owner is fat.... who knows? I just find it VERY OFFENSIVE to see siggies of women in lingerie, just breasts, butts, provocative poses on a site that is specifically designed for women. This is worse than my husband's all male website!!

Answer Question

Asked by Anonymous at 10:44 AM on Oct. 6, 2009 in About CafeMom

Answers (9)
  • Some think that it is art. I think that CM should start putting some restrictions.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:48 AM on Oct. 6, 2009

  • I can't stand it when I see stuff like that on her. I thought that this was a mom site not a dating sell your ass site.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:51 AM on Oct. 6, 2009

  • who cares?! If they like it, then let them have it. If you don't like it so much go to your settings and turn off all siggies and you wont see them anymore. Ends that problem

    Answer by Lovin_mybaby5 at 10:56 AM on Oct. 6, 2009

  • It is entertaining and gives us something to complain about.

    Answer by jillybean6781 at 11:10 AM on Oct. 6, 2009

  • That stuff doesn't bother me, whats obscene to you isn't to someone else

    Answer by Zakysmommy at 11:11 AM on Oct. 6, 2009

  • Are you talking about pinup girl tags? If so, those don't offend me.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:30 PM on Oct. 6, 2009

  • I am with you all the way. I find it to be quite disgusting. However, it doesn't go against CM guidelines so complaining won't get us anywhere. I do my very best to ignore it as I hate it VERY MUCH. (My words will never be able to explain to you how MUCH I HATE it.)

    Answer by firenicecream at 2:42 PM on Oct. 6, 2009

  • I don't like siggies for the simple fact they take up a lot room. I dislike advertisements.


    Answer by Anonymous at 6:59 PM on Oct. 6, 2009

  • I honestly believe that the women who have siggies like that are a) fat and it is their secret ambition to look like that b) are sleezeballs or c) men in disguise on this site. My husband is on a few all male forums and the siggies here are worse than on his sites. Go figure. May be the owners / users of the siggies think that since it is an all female site they can leave all decorum and decency behind.

    Answer by bryncalyn at 9:58 AM on Sep. 7, 2010

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.