What bothers you most about birthmothers? I am a birthmother for a bit over 2 yrs now. I know I was sooo clingy to my parents mother via email, and always sending pics and letters and gifts.
I have since have had another child by same man whom we are rasing together. I have stepped back a lot. She (the amom) has stopped the email in Sept of 08. I would really love to start emailing again, but not as much as we (I) used to. Just to be friends, be in touch and just share stories of our children. Since she has my birthdaughter and now I have my son, I would love to see and hear stories of her at his current age.
Should I just forget about it and move on or is there a way that the bio and adoptive mom can really be friends. Am I asking for to much? And how do I go about talking to her about this since the only way we talk is via the agency.
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