Okay, he just left so NOW I can freak out! My son 19 year old son (just turned 19 in July) has been seeing a 22 year old woman for the last two weeks. Tonight he walked in and told me that they are moving in together! I didn't try to talk him out of it (I WANTED TO BUT I RESISTED) - anyhow, then he drops another bomb on me; she's been married and was pregnant.
What? OM my head is spinning a little bit here. So, I clear up that she does not have a child but had a miscarriage AND that she WANTS to have another baby!
He's over 18 (barely), not really very mature, JUST got his financial life together well enough to afford his own vehicle. Works at a convenience store and doesn't have enough money left over to get his own place.
MOMMAS help calm me down - I have a MILLION things going through my head and a million questions. I don't think he's ready, but I will not allow myself to try to stop this - but I want to. HELP
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