Are you guys together? I would STRONGLY recommend that you do the test, even if you are together. If you arent together, when you apply for child support, he will probably petition paternity and then a DNA test will be done. Off on an thru our 5 year marriage my husband "joked" around that our son wasnt his. We divorced in July and I applied for child support and he petitioned paternity of our son, who is now FIVE YEARS OLD. So today, my son & I are going down and getting a DNA test done. I wish we would have just done it sooner so that I didnt have to come up with a lame ass reason as to why they are swabbing his mouth (I told him they want to make sure he is brushing his teeth well enough) becuase I REFUSE to tell him that his daddy is questioning him.
Even if there is 0% chance your child is anyone else's (like me, unless I had a 16 month pregnancy, his dad IS the father) I would do it just to shut him up now
at 2:43 PM on Oct. 8, 2009