About 2 months ago my DH lied straight to my face about a girl at work stamping him with her stamp. I saw the stamp on his arm and said "what's that?" He said, "oh somebody at work stamped me...I don't remember who it was."
Well I knew he was lieing the minute it came out of his mouth. I mean honestly...HOW THE HELL DO NOT KNOW WHO TOUCHED YOU??? Well I confrontated him about it and he admitted he lied. Said he didn't know why he did it and that it was stupid. He appoligized. I cried for days. I've NEVER lied to him. It hurt SO bad.
Then a week later we were talking about masturbating (don't remember why...LOL) but anyway I kind of assumed that he hadn't done that since we'd been married other than on business trips in which I participated in over the phone (TMI). Well he said he did it in the shower sometimes. That was like a slap in the face for me.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:17 PM on Oct. 8, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 8:29 PM on Oct. 8, 2009
I think you are overreacting. But I do not think masterbating is bad thing. And I do not think just looking at the opposite sex is cheating. Maybe you need to stop asking him things that you know you do not aproove of. You have the right to feel the way you do about this stuff. It sound like he has different feelings about it though.
Answer by louise2 at 8:34 PM on Oct. 8, 2009