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Concerns About Child's Development

My daughter is 8 mths old. Physically she has developed fine. She is crawling, sitting and has just began pulling up. Since about 2 mths she hates being held (unless you are standing up). She cries if you try and cuddle, hug or kiss. She hasn't fell alseep in my arms since 3 mths. She does cry to be picked up, but doesn't want to be held close. She prefers being turned around facing front. She also doesn't like eye contact up close unless you are doing something entertaining. She will make eye contact when I'm bottle feeding her. She likes to watch me and rub my face. She is also not babbling. She never really cooed and she babbled for about a week two weeks ago, but hasn't since. She does mimic me clicking my tongue, scrunching up my face, and slapping my hands on a surface. If I am on the floor with her she likes to interact with me. Has anyone else experience similar behavior? Am I right to be concerned?

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mthompson09

Asked by mthompson09 at 1:27 PM on Oct. 9, 2009 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • just her personality, maybe a sibling would help socialize her in her safe zone? Maybe she is more of a thinker?
    4artistsmom

    Answer by 4artistsmom at 1:33 PM on Oct. 9, 2009

  • She sounds OK to me.
    Arisce

    Answer by Arisce at 1:37 PM on Oct. 9, 2009

  • She just sounds really independent.
    Princessofscots

    Answer by Princessofscots at 1:38 PM on Oct. 9, 2009

  • NO I don't think you should be concerned. My daughter is 10 months and she doesnt' like to be held either lol. She wiggles around and goes limp so that she can be on the floor. They are very curious at this age, she rather be facing front so that she can see her surroundings. Also she rather be on the floor crawling and getting into everything as well.!

    cynprz

    Answer by cynprz at 2:09 PM on Oct. 9, 2009

  • she sounds exactly like my 7.5mo daughter!
    everything you said is my daughter...cept she doesnt crawl yet, just wiggles forward lol
    BambiF

    Answer by BambiF at 3:26 PM on Oct. 9, 2009

  • my son even grunts and growls at my and DH. Dh thinks its funny to kiss him a bunch cuz he gets mad. once my DS could start moving around on the ground, that was it, no more cuddle baby. she sounds like a very observant baby. i think you dont really have anything to worry about other than an independent little one!
    AmandaN1

    Answer by AmandaN1 at 3:51 PM on Oct. 9, 2009

  • Nope, this sounds JUST like my son. He hated to be held close. Not ALL babies are cuddlers just because WE want to cuddle them..lol!! i didn't actually realize that though til I had my son! He wasn't a babbler iether. he's more of an observer! he's 23 months, started REALLY talking at 19 months - running at 13 months - STILL hates to be cuddled, finds no comfort by ME comforting him - we do kiss and run's..lol!! he gets a boo boo, I kiss it, he's all better and he's off to running again. I would NOT be concerned at all if I were you ,.I KNOW its hard not to because its too easy to compare to other peoples kids but no, she sounds perfect
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 4:25 PM on Oct. 9, 2009

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