the father of the baby has once again decided to be a douche bag and break up with me ..even after PROPOSING TO ME!! he claims he cant be with me because he doesnt think im going to be a good mom...keep in mind this is my FIRST pregnancy. as a result he's already seeing other women and the one that he's most currently been with seems to be sticking around him and showing interest in my pregnancy. She made a comment that he hasnt forgotten about his son and while probably wont be there for the delivery he and she will come visit often.. i DO NOT want her or him handling my baby without me present..and if i possibly could..dont even want them to visit my son without me knowing about it. does anyone know how this could be arranged or if it's even possible to control who gets to see and hold the baby while in the hospital?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:40 PM on Oct. 9, 2009 in Pregnancy
Answer by outstandingLove at 5:43 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:43 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
I have to agree with anonymous. IF you don't want this man in your life period then don't put his name on the birth certificate. Most hospitals will let you keep your baby with you at all times, make sure to check and make sure that your child doesn't HAVE to go to the nursery! If she or he will have to, make sure that you tell the nurses, etc, who is and isn't allowed to see your child. YES YOU HAVE A SAY!
Answer by Katrina3016 at 5:45 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 6:02 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
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Answer by luvbnmomnwife at 8:30 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:17 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
I think it depends on the hospital so I would check. . . in my experience, my hospital would not let anyone take the baby out of the nursery who did not have a special wrist band on. Again I'd check with the hospital to make sure. Oh, as for the birth certificate. . . you might not put his name on there but he can file a paternity suit and get visitation/joint custody as well as his name on the birth certificate whether you like it or not.
Answer by chrissmom734 at 10:23 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
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