Me and my ( ex )boyfriend split up on October 1st and we were living together in MY apartment. He moved in with his brother now. I let him take her on October 4th to spend time with him and now he wont give her back to me. I went over there to where his brother lives to try and pick her up but he told me to go home. I even called the cops to see if they could help but they wouldnt. What else can I do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:52 PM on Oct. 9, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by ohwrite at 6:20 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
He might be worried you won't allow him to have her again. Why not call him ask to meet at a neutral place and talk things out. Let him know you feel you both should be in her life and come up with a reasonable visitation schedule then get it approved with the courts and filed. Men get screwed when it comes to custody everyday especially when they are not married to the mom. He is probably afraid of only seeing her twice a month and I can understand that. You two need to talk and you both need to get an attorney and a counselor. You both need to put aside what you each want and do what is right for that child which is to see mom and dad. Hope you guys can work it out.
Answer by Anonymous at 6:41 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 6:50 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
Also, remember that just as easily as he took her, you can take her back. Call CPS and get them involved. Thats what my husbands friend did. Go to the actual police station and see what you can do. CPS really helped hubs friend so hopefully, they will help you too!
Answer by Katrina3016 at 8:49 PM on Oct. 9, 2009